They say, change is imminent, transition inevitable,,sometimes for the good sometimes painful....yet there is nothing much that can be done about it.
I question the very validity of the transition-When it distances u from ur near and dear ones.A transition that brings better education,greater opportunities broader scope, but at the cost of double establishment-Is such transition really worth?
If yes,then are relationships taking a backseat over careers? If yes,then where are we heading to? Are we trying to carve out a successful professional life out of a fragmented personal one?
A painful compromise,irreversable time lapse coupled with the ongoing journey of meeting professional goals.
The question still remains.....is the transition worth?
Pain, compromise, transition... yes, inevitable at times. Is it worth? Sometimes only time can tell. Some dilemmas can only be resolved by shifting perspective to a higher level. Will all concerned be happier with the goal being achieved? Is the choice being made violating any fundamental value? If the answer is Yes to the first Q and No to the second, it is easier to reconcile to the choice. Then we can focus on making the most of alternative steps that mitigate the circumstances.
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